Sunday, May 1, 2011

Bad Blogger Award

I deserve the bad blogger award.  Constantly putting my writing on hold was not the plan, it just happened.  I have two topics in mind, but have not had both adequate time and energy at the same time.  Working extra hours at the salon has made my normally busy week chaotic.  In addition, I started my Mary Kay business.  (If you'd like, shop online with me at www.marykay.com/rcoleman1424 )

My salon work is supposed to slow down, so I hope to be back to my usual weekly comic posting self next week.

Now for the update I promised:

After what seemed like an eternity, I had resigned myself to the thought that I would be in a constant state of treatment.  The doctor kept saying that I had come so far and that this time I should be able to try.  The last appointment seemed like a failure, when I told him again that we had been unsuccessful. 

He gave a few helpful suggestions:
1. Having a clean digestive system (eat your yogurt and your flax, constipation can cause unnecessary pressure)
2. Ladies, prop your bottoms up with pillows, angle change maybe part of what your looking for.

They made all the difference in the world.  Since we had moved into our new home I refused to try the deed in our bedroom.  I was so afraid I would turn yet another room into a place of failure.  However, for some reason that particular Friday evening I wasn't thinking, and we were in our bedroom.  We got half way there.  Extremely exciting and nervous, Sunday night, I took a left over Vicodine (which I had received from my hymenotomy). The event was very slow and still very painful but we did it, we lost our V-cards.  The moment I had waited so long for had come. I felt so stupid because I started to cry out of excitement.  It felt so unreal, I had come to think it would never happen and then it did.  The Lord is good, I will not forget all His goodness, for He has blessed me and I am full.

I still have extremely painful beginnings.  Sometimes I don't think I can do it.  Yet, once past a certain point it's bearable and occasionally good.  I still have work to do, but coming this far...I'm just so excited to have come this far.

I hope that you are all having a painless or less painful day. 

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  1. SO excited still for you--finally no longer a virgin!! haha :) I just pray that pain will soon be completely gone

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